It isn't easy. And now I understand why many people remain un-married for a long period of time.
Do I regret getting married? I'm not sure I am able to answer that question.
Why? Because there's always a particular sweet moment that you feel not regretting getting married but when you're having the bitter taste of it, you think of the negative and regretting everything.

Obviously, it's two different thing being a girlfriend and a wife.
It's no joke being a wife. Maybe some of you might think that becoming a wife/husband is no different when we're boyfriend and girlfriend. That's what I think too back then.
It's really tough. Especially when problems arise.
Back when we're boyfriend and girlfriend, you can jokingly say, let's break up or pretend to be.
But when you're married, there's no run away. You can't pretend. Why? Because once you have that kind of niat even without saying anything to your partner, you're already dead. -Divorce-.
That's how serious shit this marriage is.
And the issues with the In-Laws always arise. Not only in-laws but money and time as well.

Every marriage relationship will have disagreements. The key to not allowing these fights to create hostility in your marriage or to hurt your marriage is to know what you are fighting about, to understand why you are fighting, to know how to fight fair, and to forgive one another.

If you and your spouse have fallen into a pattern of fighting over the same issues over and over again, you need to ask yourselves three questions:

1. Why do you fight?

2. Do you even know what you are fighting about?

3. Is this an issue we will never resolve?

What Married couples fight about:

• Chores
  
• Money
  
• Kids
  
• Sex including pornography
  
• Infidelity
  
• Communication
  
• Time including time spent on the computer
  
• Jobs
  
• Recreation
  
• Neatness
  
• Annoying habits
  
• Jealousy
  
• Past history
  
• Substance abuse
  
• Pointless or silly issues
  
• Inlaws

Why Married couples fight?

• To win
  
• To vent
  
• For control
  
• To release stress
  
• To get closer to spouse
  
• To clear the air
  
• To resolve issues

Negative behaviors resulting from an unfair fights in a marriage:

• Withdrawal
  
• Silent treatment
  
• Avoidance
  
• Distance
  
• Meanness
  
• Demanding
  
• Pouting
  
• Breaking promises

Negative feelings resulting from fights in a marriage:

• Ignored
  
• Unloved
  
• Hurt
  
• Anger
  
• Hopeless
  
• Insulted
  
• Worried
  
• Abused
  
• Useless
  
• Unwanted
  
• Unimportant
  
• Put down

What to do?

• Take responsibility for what you do or don't do.
  
• Fight fair.
  
• Listen to one another.
  
• Don't try to be a mind reader.
  
• Clarify what you think your spouse is saying.
  
• If you need to cool down, take a time out.
  
• Be open to compromise.
  
• Know when to agree to disagree.
  
• Don't fight to win. Fight for your marriage.
  
• Forgive one another.